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Ep. 55 | Programming Your Own Reality - Juan Pablo Carrizo
In this episode, Jack Moran meets with transformational mentor Juan Pablo Carrizo in Panama City to explore how energy, intention, and consciousness shape our lives. The two discuss emotional healing, sobriety, and breaking free from limiting beliefs, insightful topics for any entrepreneur seeking deeper clarity and alignment. Juan shares how internal shifts can lead to external success, both personally and professionally. This episode encourages listeners to reprogram their reality and build from a more empowered state.
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Entrepreneurship can be lonely. So if you're looking for a support system, please follow the link in the description below for some more information. What a good idea that you come here. You know what I mean? Like really interesting people because I was like this. This specific like strategic position of just like a lot of people just encountering this specific spot. And it has always been like that, like since the time of the conquest. So you're going to meet a lot of different people, have a lot of different backgrounds. And I just like desire. Do you like a good journey here? Yeah. I'm excited. It's like it seems like the center of the world to me. It is. It is. So tell me, what is your business? Okay. My business is an extension of my transformational and evolutionary process of consciousness. Spirit. And just like, growing as a person. And I teach that to people by practicing it myself. I have right now when I'm having is a a school of personal growth and development. But also I have like my one ones and now actually is a really nice moment to have this conversation because as I was saying to Sam, I usually when I read podcast, it's about like human behavior and psychedelic therapy or different kind of processes that people can experience to to grow. I mean, not just like cyclic psycho like therapy, but like any, like spiritual or emotional tool that you can get for you to grow and for you to understand your subconscious and to evolve from all those issues that we all have, in our own processes. So it's a really so, so now is like the first time that I can speak like strictly from business and my experience, of of of my own vision of it. So it's really nice to be here and it's really nice to have this conversation right now. Also, what I want to share is that, I'm experienced like a quantum leap in my business right now. Like six months ago, seven months ago, my my son, my first son was born. Congrats. That is the most psychedelic experience you can have in your entire life. Because, the growth is going to be exponential if you are willing to receive it. And if you are, like, willing to open your arms with grace for you to like, accept that experience with all your heart and it will just like make you blow up if you in the best way possible. And it happened to me why I'm saying about this thing about the quantum leap. Because like when, when when I started doing this, like I was like really like an artisan. Like everything. Just like I do it myself and I speak with people and I am like my own secretary and I'm like, like, just like everybody in my business. Even though sometimes I spoke to, like, if I was my secretary and then I, I called the boss and I was like the same person that came to the conversation. So I have experienced those things through time. But seven months ago, I started experience a really nice phenomenon now that is called virality. And my issues that were ten, 20 and 30 people start becoming thousands of people. So that brings me to this new phase of the business that is called creating a dream team. And like, like the. To delegate truly start to delegate. Because I think like one of the things with, with entrepreneurs is like, we don't know how to delegate truly because we can be kind of attached to what we have created. But that doesn't come like from an ego egotistical point of view. It comes because you're afraid. It comes because you don't want something to destroy this investment that I have been, like, dying to create. But I think part of the maturity of the process is for you to understand that you cannot do it by yourself. So that makes you enter into a new space of not just like giving your business to anybody, but to have like the right discernment to know who can like, carry this with me and will carry will carrying it with the same passion, with the same strengths, and with the same strength, and with the same force that you can do it. And obviously, when you are doing businesses with integrity. And that's why I told you, like I, I am reading this flow of spirituality, entrepreneurship like combined in a really practical, not just philosophical way. Because for me, spirituality must change to reality. If spirituality is not changing your reality, then the spirituality that you're practicing, I'm sorry to say, but it's not working like that is the only for me. The only reason that I have entered into this space is for me to become like the own programmer of my own reality, and to create the reality that I want to experience that I am doing it right now. I think things will just change in scale, but I feel like a millionaire right now. Why? I can feel like a millionaire right now because I can work from home. I can create an international team from home. I can be with my kid when I'm making thousands of dollars in my home, and I can be there, present with my wife and with my family there at the same time, at 32 years old, like my dad, just looks at me and said, like, you don't know how fucking lucky you are right now for you to experience out that way. So I just feel like blessed and not just blessed, but I think is is something crazy that I have been crazy enough to pursue. And it is turning out at least right now. Really? Well. I've been in this process for eight years, and I've experienced right now an exponential growth with content. Content for me is like content, and storytelling is the best tool we can have right now. And I was telling Sam that with just like 5 or 6 podcasting delays in the last seven months, I have grown like 150,000 followers. Like I'm getting like a thousand followers every 36 hours right now. So it's been the journey. Wasn't that way all the way. I think my business, my product and what I'm offering my energy is mature enough for it to be like exponential right now. So that's where I'm at right now. I'm having conversation about conversations about scalability, conversations about creating the product, the complete, menu of products, of creating my first book of all. So people are now like getting they want to know me because how you get like these numbers, like how you get from like charging like $50 the hour and having like 10,000 followers to having 3.54 million people in your profile monthly, like. And that is also inspiring for me to create a content creation agency. So possibilities are there. Like, I, I'm really grateful, I think like my change, my, my my, my, my transition from the 20s to my 30s had been really cool, in the sense that I believe that every ten years we, we experience, like, entering into a new phase of our life, like a rebirth, a rebirth, a complete rebirth. And obviously, I was 27 when I left my home from my parents, and at 32, I was like, getting my diploma, getting married, having my first child and my business booming. And so if I like, astrologically, that is called like the Saturn Return, the return of Saturn and the return of Saturn is basically how starts when you're 27. So although if you like, listen to people, what happened when they were like 27, 28 years old, you will you will notice that something like strikes them in a really profound way. Why? Because that is like the exact moment when the universe starts to consider in you, an adult in your life. And depending of the level of consciousness and awareness and awareness that you have of that phenomena, then you can take like the more, the more benefit from that process is the destruction process, but is a rebirth process. As you said, it. So for me was a perfect cycle, leaving home by my, my own hero's journey. So now I'm like the provider and I have now a reason when I woke up and I see like my child. Just like looking at me and smiling. So you have no excuse. Like you cannot, Because for me, running away is not a, it's not a option. Like I, I teach people like, good behaviors in a relationship, like for, for a really strange reason to have like, gravity didn't do this. I have gravitating to this this, relationship, advice world. I've become, like, really good at it. Like, I have a list of almost 4000 women. Women that wants to to be with me for, for therapy right now. I thought you're going to say that I want to date, you know. It could be, but like that. Have a long list. Yeah. Like it's insane. And I think it's because I. With the process and with time, I have been able to decode the language of what people need. And one of the most interesting things that happened to me with people is then when I say, like when I'm saying something about emotional behavior or spiritual issues about, or roots about behavior or whatever philosophical or point of view that I'm sharing, they say stuff like, I, I've never heard someone I put in words, all the craziness that I feel inside of me that I don't, I don't know how to speak about it. So I think that is one, one of my like, talents that is like to verbalize stuff that is like one of the things that I love the most do so I like to speak and to talk a lot and to hear a lot. Obviously. And, and those are stuff that I've been doing actually all my life, I think, I don't know if you have read like the creative act of Rick Rubin is one of the most in another book, but I haven't read it. I own the book. It's fucking amazing book I hope you need to read. That is amazing what you can get there. And it's true. Like, I feel like we all are like this function of the universe. Like we are like this specific musical tone that we all are. And when you like, evolve as a person and you can feel love from yours for yourself and you have like make peace with your story, you start like vibrating in a new frequency, and that means that you can get equalized into the symphony of the universe. And if you're equalized the symphony of the universe, then everything in that current will come to you because you're doing what you're supposed to do, and it's not something that you're doing from what you're doing, college, or what you do with your parents or whatever. It's just something that is like, for me is divine design. I came to this earth to help people with understanding themselves and to have better relationships and to help society in that way. And I'm really, really sure about it. And I think that's a really powerful, place to stand right now. And it's really beautiful too, because if you help people to equalize themselves at the musical tone they are, they will evolve and they will also equalizing to that symphony and and you help. That's how you actually help raising consciousness around you. So it's it's a pretty cool way to see it. And, it, it, it just have these repercussions in every aspect of your life. One of the most important things I think is integrity. I cannot speak about being truthful or faithful or, for example, to be in an in, in integral person. For example, if I'm like, cheating on my wife, like, become like with clients and they're telling me like, yeah, but my thing needs to be truth. And truthfully, I need to be honest. And everybody must, like, be their best personally. Yeah, well, you're cheating on your wife, and you're, like, just coming with your lies to your people, telling them to be truthful. Like, from there, what you're trying to create cannot happen. You can trick yourself into thinking that is functioning, but at the end, you're just like falling into your own bullshit. And that's why people pay me. They pay me for me to do that because they need someone like that in their life. I don't do that for free because, if you give unsolicited advice to somebody like, I've been there in the past and it's it's not it's not good. People don't value what they don't pay for. I don't enter there. I don't enter, I just like I just give kind of, advice to people that pay me. That's how I would say good, that's how I do it. And it is virtually equal to really, really good right now. Because I've learned, so I'm really happy to be in this, in this kind of, point in my, in my career. And I'm really happy to do that, this podcast right now in English, because I'm looking at myself outside of myself right now, is thinking about all the blessings that are happening in my life. And I'm just like, what the hell is happening? So thank you very much, man. Yeah, we're happy to have you here. And I think that it's apparent that you have very clearly defined your purpose for yourself, and you understand your purpose, but there's a lot of people out there that are still trying to figure out what is their reason for being here on earth and, and living life. And I'm curious, what has inspired you to pursue this path, and how did you, start going down this journey? Okay. One of the most important thing that I feel that have been my success is that people believe me when I'm speaking, and I, like, you're you're listening to me in English, but in Spanish. I'm really ra like, really, really just, like, really raw. Like, I speak, like the thoughts that people don't want to accept they have. And that way of speaking, it just shocks people because he's like entering into my mind. Like he's just putting the words that I cannot say even to myself right now. And that is a really powerful tool. And I feel like the most powerful thing we have in this moment with social media era is our storytelling capacity. And I am a son of a marketer and, and, songwriter that is my dad. He's an artist, and he obviously has translated a lot of that into me, like, since I was like a little, little kid. But I think the most important is my story. In my story, there is this, this kid that is just like an outcast, that has, like, this profound understanding of emotional phenomena. And I was in a school system that could not give me what I needed. So I just frustrated, like, obviously almost all my life. And I thought, like, I was just stupid person all my life until I fell into drug addiction, like for ten years. In that self-destruction process that I experienced and in all that self-hate and rejection, I just go into bottoms to bottoms to bottoms to bottoms to bottoms. But always having like, all this spiritual insight that I, oh, my life had, like, I knew that I knew stuff that I couldn't put into words, but I knew I understand things, I understood things like when I was in school, I wasn't paying attention to what the teacher was saying, or if this was the lesson. I was paying attention what was happening in the classroom actually like, why this people is behaving this way, or why this person is reacting this way about this stuff. And I was always really invested into that, even though I didn't want to, because also that talent that I know that now is a talent. But I used to think it was a curse when I was little. Also, also came like this really profound emotional sensibility about stuff. So you are getting aware a lot of things. Nobody understands you about what you are doing or how you see the world, and you are just like feeling things 5005 times harder that everybody around you. So how you can grow in that process without going crazy. And that was my issue actually, until when I was 16, I think I started my drug addiction, journey actually, it was hard. It was really hard. It was really confusing times. But even though I don't like some people that are like recovered alcoholics or drug addicts or drug addicts, they will like, tell you about the horrible stuff. And that was like, fucking hell or whatever. Like for me, it was just the way I was trying to understand the world or my world also. So it's a really risky road. I would not recommend it to nobody because no, because not necessarily. Everybody can come out from there as I came out from there. I've been ten years now without, like, recreational drugs. Congrats. Thank you man. And, it must be very liberating and freeing. Yeah, it's it's it's really it's it's really amazing because I, I don't just become like, a recovered person. Like, I changed my life into into more of that, that some people that are recovery from all this a a vision of the world, Alcoholics anonymous, the most important thing they did in their life was just to stop drinking, for example. For me, it's not like that. That was just like a phase that is like back there. But I, I'm grateful for all like, this, stepping stones that I because AA was really good for me for the moment. It was good for me. And then I was just looking to other stuff. And that's how my journey, like, started. Like, I come from this, my dad, like, I got the blessing that my dad could, like, send me to a rehab when I. Yeah, like, actually ask for help. Truly. Ten years after just being a fucking rock star in my head. And, rehab was a really nice experience for me. And then it came AA and then I, I started just like studying. I have one ayahuasca experience. When before, after going to know, before going to rehab. And in that ayahuasca experience, like when I was in the process, like the plant or the spirit of the plant, just like, tell me like, this is the last time that you will come here and you're dirty like like when you when you will have a next ayahuasca experience, you will come clean sober. And I was like, yeah, right. Well like, yeah right. For sure. And in six months, like I could not say like that ayahuasca experience just like changed my life completely. But what truly changed is like the way like, drugs hit me, marijuana and cocaine and MDMA was never the same after that. It just make me miserable. And in six months, I was like, going to Costa Rica to a rehab for a hundred days. And from there, like, if you like, in a game, like for example, when you play Pacman, when you were like little in the Game Boy, like I was like straight in the first step again at 24, like. And I felt like all my friends, they were just like moving on. I was just like stuck in this, like, fucking limbo. But it was perfect because I was called into something greater that I could, that I could, see in that moment. And, I think this is the first time that I speak the this like, publicly this way. And when I returned to Panama, I went to AA, and I was like, all this, AA guy and all this stuff because I've been, like, really influential person, like, for the bad and for the good. Also, I, I, I, I took him to two aa aa like 15 friends that were like doing drugs with me. For example. And then he left when I was two years in the journey that they say something like the terrible two because you start feeling that you're not sick and you or you are getting bored or whatever. And I couldn't buy into that. I was saying, I'm not going to be here telling all my life that I'm sick and that I have a disease all the days of my life. Fuck that. Because what I see is like people in that process, they are just like sitting there, withered demon that is asleep. And I was like, for me, that is not healing. And those ideas start entering into my mind. And I said, I need to leave and then I start feeling. Then from that moment on, I felt like this inner wisdom that just starts to awaken from that moment, that actually was the inner wisdom that I felt like when I was a kid. It just like, re reappeared again in that moment because my drug addiction experience was just to shut off that, because that make me miserable. And when that happened, I just start feeling this inner voice inside of me and that inner voice inside of me is what I've created, this business. It had taken me here. Taken here. I remember, I was like, like eight years ago, I, I didn't have any money because my dad was like my provider, like, all my life. And I have been like a really shitty son for a lot of years. Really spoiled asshole for a lot of years. And this dire financial situation in my life, like, changed completely because my dad, like, also changed and life happened and I am so grateful that my dad had that bad rough patch, because that is the thing that, like, put a finger up my ass and say like, you better, do you better start moving, bro. Like you better. You better change your reality. And that's how it started. Like, I remember that I was with a friend, I couldn't buy, like, a fucking Tylenol. Like I have a headache and I could not buy a Tylenol. And I called my mom like, mom, can you send me money for me to buy a tire? She said, I'm sorry. And that's where shit hits the fan. Like, truly. And my friend was she. She talked. She told me she's like a really, successful architecture. Architect. And she told me you don't know what you would will do. Like, this is just the temporary. Because I can see in you what you can't right now. And she was not, Mistaken. There is a really. Now I'm going to speak about the genesis of how I started, like, doing the deal. I had, like, this friend, like, we don't speak a lot right now, but I will love her forever. Like, when I was in AA, I have always been this person that people come together to come to get advice. And that happened since I was in school. And my sister was like, in this gym with this really famous, like she has like a fucking 1.5 million followers right now. Like she's big, like he's he she has an empire right now. She's amazing. I admire her deeply. She came to that. That person came into my house because she was friends of my sister. And I was just like in my in my in my studio. I was there, like meditating or stuff because I was like, just listening to that inner peace. And I was like trying to find that for me in that moment. And this girl, this 30 year old girl came to my studio and I was just there. And my sister like, told me like, speak to her, like, please speak to her. I was like, okay. And she's just like starting asking me questions. I love her. And she was like in a fucking mess. Like for five years from this issue. Yeah. She was telling me and I was like, but what if instead you look at it this way, you can look this way? That thing. And she was like. Stuck in complete shock, like for ten minutes. Like, what the fuck you just do? You just did, she told me like, you are really talented. Like. And I was 24 there. Like, I didn't know I wasn't having fun, like, because I have I had always like like, like two people tell me, like, issues and how I can, like, help them to fix them. And I and I do that like, as a hobby. It's not something that I can put in like a lot of effort to do. Like, I like, I like, like, challenges. But it's something that I do naturally. And I remember like, I was like in this crisis, I, my dad could not pay for college education for me because we didn't have any money there. And I remember I was just, like, crying in my room because it was like the first time in my life that I was actually going to be responsible about stuff. And I was just, like, shitting my pants because I've always covered, like, behind my parents and all that shit. And like, like life was getting me a reality check. Like, what are you going to do? What you gonna do? I was just really afraid. I was crying, and I was just like, I was trying, like, I've done, like, commercials when I was a kid. I am like, actually, how how is it cool when somebody, is a great doxing the radio and do, like this look like an MC? Yeah. Like, radio host. Radio host. But it's like like you need, like, a license to be, and local to, like you are. You are a local for the radio. So that's a career, actually. And you need a license to do it. So I have that that since I was, like, 11 years old, like, I, I professionally charged since I was a kid because my dad was in all this marketing business and he gave me work when I was a kid, and I was still like, okay, I'm gonna do commercials. I'm going to, like, start, like, recording myself and to sell that to, to to to businesses. I'm going to and I, and I will see why. And I want to sell stuff and I, I will see if I can pay college for myself. Then. And I was just like, really afraid. And I called my friend and she told me, like, just getting to your knees. And before you go to sleep, just tell the universe or whatever you believe in to find. That perfect possibility for you right now. And I was like, okay, that is bullshit, but I'm going to do it. So I just get into my knees, I was crying, I say, please grab me the perfect opportunity, go into the universe of possibility and bring me the best possibility for me, for myself, in this moment. Right now, I just want to sleep 24 hours later, this really famous trainer that I'm telling you just called me and said I just had a dream with. I would just dream with you. You appeared in my dream, and in that dream, you were speaking to thousands of people and I was like, okay. And I was all in this bullshit, the feeling bad about me, and I'll complain. And I was like, oh, my life is so difficult. I was in that. And she told me like, what are you going to do? And I was like, okay, I think I'm gonna sell stuff, and I'm going to do commercials to see if I can pay for college for myself. I was like, just like a fucking mess in that moment. And she told me, okay, that is nice. And she told me something that just strike me so hard that I remember, like, the sound in my head when she, like, put this into words. And she told me, it's okay. It's nice that you want to do commercials and all the stuff, but why the fuck you don't do what you were born to do? She just told me and I was like in complete silence. She was like really famous. She had like 500 students and she told me, you have 40, 40, 48 hours to create a class that you will bring to my girls and it was like a class of what I she was like a class of what? You know. And I'm going to pay you for it. And I was like, okay. I remember like the prayer that I did that I did last night, like, find me the perfect possibility. So I had 48 hours. I have like 20 books. And with those 20 books, I went to the barber shop and I buy like some like fucking Buddhist shit that I put in my into to, to dress up, to go to that thing because I didn't know what the fuck I was doing, but I was, but I actually knew what I was doing. So I go, I bought like this, like $0.20, like, I don't know what even religion was. That thing I put in my neck, I was like, become like this fucking. So any other shaman that I was creating in the moment. So it was really fun. It was really fun and cute, actually. And I went into this class, I just like I have like 30. My mom was there. My mom was over there in the in the 30 client and 30 people that were there. And I just started I had a person that helped me with the presentation. I just start speaking. I just speak, speak speaks with just like the energy was flowing, flowing, flowing. And I was singing about stuff, about what I felt was what was transformation and why, is important and why we need to live like a life that is like in that way. And I would just just sing like, concepts and things. And I was like listening to the people and they were like, giving me all this, feedback. And it was really cool. And I fell in the zone for the first time in my life, actually, I remember that. I feel I have felt like a fucking idiot all my life. And I then I invented, like, intuitively like this, like this dynamic. Like, we just like to hold hands. So we're going to see, like this stuff, we're going to do this. And they just like all the women just start to cry, like, because just trying to cry and cry. And I was like, and I felt that I could hold the space for everyone there. And I felt like something like really big behind me was like helping me doing that. And I remember when I finished like the, the, the, the, the gratitude, like there were having with me, they were returning that energy to me. And in my heart, I just felt like I've arrived, like all my life resumes into this moment right now. And they're in that exact moment. Was where I found my calling. Like, truly. And my school is called The Old Kid. The old kid actually schooled. Or old boy. I don't like to use old boy because it's a really, really fucked up movie that is called Old Boy is really fucked up. So is El Nino Viejo the old kid. And it happened because when I was doing like this presentation, I was like, this is 60 year old women woman. That was just like with her eyes closed, like. And she told me when the, when the presentation finishes to me, like, you know, if I close my eyes, I don't know, how old are you? Because you sound like a boy, but you're not speaking things, boy. Speak. And another woman said, you are the old boy. And that's how my brand was like born. So for me, business alignment, integrity, passion, creativity. Like connection to divine, to divinity is the same thing. And I have been obviously creating better ways for me to share that. And I have I have also, experience the phases of growing up, of getting like, stuck, like when you get stuck for years and stuff, and when with my business, I have had good and bad, partner experiences. And I've, and I've always felt felt sustained by my talent. But it's not I don't want to say like s my talent. Talent is just the way divinity expresses through you. And when you, like, connect to that, you will. You will always be in a good spot. When the other guy that was speaking here, when I, when I came in, he, he said something about like, you ask a question like, what is the most important thing you have learned about being entrepreneur or that you feel is most important? And I and I felt like, trust your talent doesn't matter if people, like, treat you bad. It doesn't matter if you get like, How it could look when somebody like robs yours is a tough one because is a tough to find. A scam. Somebody scam you, rips you off. It doesn't matter. Whatever the hell happened to you. If you trust your talent, eventually somebody will. Will look at it. Will work from that energy. People will get close to you and you will get good opportunities. Trust talent. Because. Because that is your calling. That is something bigger than you, that is just expressing through you and, the, the thing about the book of, of Rick Rubin is like your, your business or your idea is not something you are having is something alive that is manifesting through the different channels of yourself. And you are just like getting that Wi-Fi for it to free to be every moment more solid and more solid and more solid. And you need to be, open to change your opinion, to change your beliefs, and to change what you're businesses and just be open to that, a life process that is going through you. So that that that was my beginning into this. I think that, when you talk about, you start trusting your talent and you start being authentic, which is what I would call it. It's a natural piece of that process that things like people start treating you badly or, or people would scam you. That happens when up until that point, you've had this UN alignment or incongruence, and as you start becoming authentic, you are reprograming your reality. So all those things that are un aligned start that you start eliminating them from your life and they start presenting themselves because all those people that you have been being in a inauthentic to, to mesh with, when you start being authentic, you're creating an imbalance. They're willful. But if you can push through that adversity, then you start getting that realignment and that congruence in your life, and the people around you start to support you and everything change. And my question to you is, and this will be my final question, we you talked about in the beginning how you like to help people to program their own reality. What do you think is the key in the methodology to programing your own reality? Getting the outcomes that you desire? Okay. I think there is a starting point for everyone, and I help people like to initiate that process. The outcome from that can be different for everyone, but I do the same process with everybody at the beginning. And to start changing your reality, you need to understand how you tell the story of your life to yourself. How you understand reality from how you have narrated your life to yourself all your life. So what I do with people is that I. Make them write the story of their life, as they are a producer of a story or a TV show or whatever. And you write the story and you will start. But you normally don't do that because you are in so much pain and trauma that you don't want to look at it because it's uncomfortable. But if you do that with the right tools, the right people, it's a really cool process I give to people some, nice point of view from their work where they can do this process like one perspective. Truly honest. My favorite perspective is the perspective of the student. I don't have any issue to look that I don't know, something. I'm so used to be a student that that it makes easier the process of not being perfect. And that is a superpower because the student does not not need to know shit. Like, you don't need to know shit because you're learning and that's it. And if you stay in that state and you become teachable, all the time, you're fucking inevitable. Like nobody can beat you in that mindset. The other one that I use is the perspective of the of a doctor. Like how this situation and no matter how horrible it was, is helping me for me to heal and grow up. The other one is the perspective of the best friend. You will not treat your best friend as shit. Because I'm pretty sure we here can consider that we are really nice friends and we are really good friends, and we know how to do to be good friends, to people. For example, if somebody that is your actually bro is your brother and he calls you like, I'm going to jump from this, roof because he is in chaos and he just wants to die. Like, you're not going to be judging your friend, and you're not going to be, like, telling him what to do. You're just going to be there, and you're going to listen to him and you're going to, like, be really worried about him, because that is what a friend do. And and what I ask to be is why when you are in chaos and when you are wanting to jump from the roof, then you don't behave the same way. You're behaving with your friend. You are behaving like your worst enemy in that moment. So that is how I teach people that they don't know how to beat their own friends. Actually. And when they write the story I gave the I gave people lenses for, they can find meaning in that story. And if all my decisions are the result of all the story that I have created for myself, then if I take all the information that is toxic and that has been negative and that has created all this miserable life for myself and I am the programmer, then I can change this too, because I am the only responsible for all my actions and all the bullshit that I have done. But if I'm the of the. I am the artist of all this chaos in my life, then I can be my own, solution. Also. And that is personal responsibility. That is personal power. And the the main shift that happens with my clients is that they hate themself, but they don't know why. Why they hate themselves. A lot of people speak about self-love. And and you need to do this and you need to do. But they don't actually don't know what the hell they are speaking like. Self-love is the art of stopping betraying yourself, but you first need to understand why you are betraying yourself all the time. And you don't know that because all that is in your subconscious. So I help you understand why the fuck you hate yourself and when. When I help you to understand that thing and to fix the situation that you are fixing it, and you are getting aware that you are becoming your own healing, then that is like a really powerful insight for someone. And then you become your own source of love. And when you start becoming a living, that then your reality changes completely. And from there you can create whatever you want. It's a very powerful lesson and I align with it completely. I think it's completely true and what I take away from your story is that it is a lesson that I think is applicable to everyone, which is that no matter what situation you're in or what rock bottom you are experiencing, everybody has a purpose. And they're they do have the ability and the power to find that purpose and completely change their lives in the world for the better. Totally. If people are interested in connecting with you and are interested in your services or want to reach out, where can they find you? Okay, you can find me now on Instagram and on TikTok. It's called it's called El Nino Viejo. In the Instagram we do have, a Spanish letter to the end. So we have you're going to find me with an n and you're going to find like all the, all the information that you need. And I hope you like my content. I'm pretty sure with the I can transform my content into any language now. So that is amazing. And now I'm going to be waiting for you. And also, with all the things that I have telling you of all these advances and all this growing that is happening, I'm going to have a platform and also a membership. So everything is coming to connection right now. So thank you very much for having me and thank you for having me. My first is English speaking podcast Live. Yeah. You did a great job. It's been great. Appreciate you coming on. Thank you man I got.
